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Birthday Chocolate Cake

May 11, 2014 by Rakhee

birthday cake

I’m in India. On a rush trip. My birthday came and went with no time to post it here. Not that that is such a bad thing. I am hardly the one to celebrate. Days that are assigned to be fun days usually don’t do it for me. Anyway, I am here in my country for mom who refuses to get better. Hard to witness the person I know disappear. And as people around her grow increasingly frustrated and fed-up, I refuse to give up.

Now I live a thousand miles away from her so you might think, easy for her to say. And, don’t get me wrong I too get awfully upset when she refuses to listen to reason. But, then I think, who am I to say that she actually is able to do the things we demand of her. Who are we, who are not living in her body, suffering what she does. Moments such as these require mad crazy silliness and distractions not lectures on how strong she should be.

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The topic of the opposite sex might bring a smile I figured! “Mom, so, were you in love before dad?” That stopped her amidst her cries of pain. Wait is that a grin?! “No” she said shaking her head quite emphatically, trying to get me to believe her. “Nah, I don’t really believe that! c’mon Mom, share with me, girl to girl!” I saw that smile of hers again, the kind that could make any guy’s heart, that witnessed it, skip a beat.”Well, I guess I had a crush or two” she said reluctantly. I was lapping this up with quite much hunger. “Give me names and vitals please!” said I. I got her to tell me the most wonderful moments of her school life. Of friends, of her old home. More grins and some more sharing ensued as time slowly passed in joy, reminiscing innocent times gone by.

She is the strongest woman I have ever known. She has broken every stupid rule that an Indian society may have thrust upon her to bring us up. She was/is like the coolest mom to have. The most stylish and the most gorgeous too. Today and every day for the rest of her or my life, is, I think my turn to be strong for her.

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I wasn’t with my mom on my birthday but I swear every time I bake or cook she is with me. And, I wanted a perfect chocolate cake to celebrate her along too. This recipe claimed to be just that. I rarely believe in that sort of thing, but this one lived up to its name big time. One might ask why I’m making my own birthday cake. Well, I think everyone should. How else would you get to the cake YOU want on your special day.

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A Birthday Cake, Mother's Day + Not Giving Up
 
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Author: boxofspice
Ingredients
  • For the Cake
  • 2 cups sugar
  • 1¾ cups all-purpose flour
  • ¾ cup unsweetened cocoa powder
  • 2 teaspoons baking soda
  • 1 teaspoon baking powder
  • 1 teaspoon salt
  • 2 eggs
  • 1 cup buttermilk
  • 1 cup strong coffee
  • ½ cup vegetable oil
  • 2 teaspoons vanilla extract

  • For the Frosting
  • 230 grams unsalted butter, softened (but not melted)
  • 3½ cups confectioners sugar
  • ½ cup cocoa powder
  • ½ teaspoon table salt
  • 2 teaspoons vanilla extract
  • 4 tablespoons heavy cream
Instructions
  1. To prepare the frosting, cream butter for a few minutes in a bowl with an electric mixer. Turn off the mixer. Sift 3 cups powdered sugar and cocoa into the mixing bowl. Turn your mixer on the lowest speed until the sugar and cocoa are absorbed by the butter. Increase mixer speed to medium and add vanilla extract, salt, and cream and beat for 3 minutes. If your frosting needs a more stiff consistency, add a little more sugar. If your frosting needs to be thinned out, add additional milk 1 tablespoon at a time.
  2. To prepare the cake, heat oven to 175°C/350°F. Grease and flour two 9-inch round baking pans. Set aside.
  3. In a bowl, combine the sugar, flour, cocoa, baking soda, baking powder and salt. Mix on low until dry ingredients are thoroughly combined. Add eggs, buttermilk, coffee, oil and vanilla. Beat on medium speed for about two minutes; the batter will be thin. Pour batter evenly into prepared pans.
  4. Bake in preheated oven for 30 to 35 minutes or until wooden toothpick inserted in center comes out clean. Cool 10 minutes; remove from pans to wire racks. Cool completely.
  5. Divide the batter between the two layers and smooth on top of the entire cake. Decorate as desired.
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Comments

  1. Darlene says

    May 11, 2014 at 4:31 pm

    If I could have licked that chocolate birthday cake right off the computer screen……

    • boxofspice says

      May 14, 2014 at 2:48 pm

      Gorgeously decadent right? 🙂

  2. Sam Sin says

    May 11, 2014 at 5:50 pm

    Your mum sounds like a wonderful woman. She’s obviously had a massive influence on your life and it’s fantastic that you are taking your turn to look after her now. 🙂

    • boxofspice says

      May 14, 2014 at 2:47 pm

      She continues to be my best friend Sam Sin. Thank you for dropping by…

  3. thebrookcook says

    May 11, 2014 at 11:41 pm

    Wow! What an absolutely beautiful cake! HBD too!! 🙂

    • boxofspice says

      May 14, 2014 at 2:47 pm

      Thank you!

  4. onehindu says

    May 12, 2014 at 3:33 am

    What a lovely tribute to your mom 🙂
    Thanks for sharing.

    • boxofspice says

      September 19, 2014 at 7:40 pm

      thank you for stopping by…

  5. Sweet and Savoury Pursuits says

    May 12, 2014 at 2:50 pm

    Your cake looks delicious! You take beautiful photos.

    • boxofspice says

      May 14, 2014 at 2:47 pm

      Thank you so much Sweet and Savoury Pursuits!

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    May 15, 2014 at 10:03 am

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  7. Angie@Angie's Recipes says

    May 21, 2014 at 3:53 am

    The cake looks divine! Happy belated Birthday!

    • boxofspice says

      June 19, 2014 at 11:51 am

      Thank you!

  8. huntfortheverybest says

    May 21, 2014 at 4:17 pm

    it is a gorgeous cake!

    • boxofspice says

      June 19, 2014 at 11:51 am

      It sure is! Thank you!

  9. spoon me like porridge says

    May 22, 2014 at 12:54 am

    this looks beautiful! x xhan

    • boxofspice says

      June 19, 2014 at 11:51 am

      Thank you!

  10. Del's cooking twist says

    June 1, 2014 at 2:55 pm

    This cake is just AMAZING! Stunning! I’ve got to try this recipe asap. Congrats on this beautiful masterpiece 🙂

    • boxofspice says

      June 19, 2014 at 11:52 am

      Thank you so much! Let me know how it turns out when you try it… 🙂

  11. April J Harris (@apriljharris) says

    June 8, 2014 at 7:53 pm

    It’s hard watching our parents grow old, but you are making precious memories now. This is a lovely cake, thank you for sharing it.

    • boxofspice says

      June 19, 2014 at 11:52 am

      Thank you for the kind words April. <3

  12. LucyinAust says

    August 11, 2014 at 11:06 am

    I made this cake, the cake was good but there was not nearly enough frosting to cover the cake, let alone fill the centre. The colour was very different and not shiny at all.

    • boxofspice says

      September 22, 2014 at 5:57 pm

      Hi Lucy, did you whisk it sufficiently? That is key…

  13. S.Lauren@ModernGranola says

    September 19, 2014 at 6:14 pm

    I made this cake for my sister’s birthday yesterday, and it is crazy delicious. The cake is so flavorful and so perfectly moist that it would be good by itself, but it would be a tragedy to do so because this frosting is mind-blowing. Congrats on an easy to follow and great recipe! It was a huge hit.

    • boxofspice says

      September 22, 2014 at 5:59 pm

      Hi there! This cake is indeed splendid! I’m so glad to hear it turned out great. 🙂

  14. Tiffany says

    January 20, 2015 at 7:41 am

    Will be making this cake ? real soon …. When I seen the pic I wanted to lick the page ? omg it looks sooo good, we are a bunch of Chocolate ? Lovers!!! Thanx for sharing ?

    • boxofspice says

      January 20, 2015 at 12:10 pm

      Hi Tiffany, thank you for stopping by. This cake is so deliciously decadent. Oh what would be life without chocolate, right?! Let me know how it turns out when you give it a go! <3

  15. Charlotte says

    January 23, 2015 at 4:47 am

    Your story is remarkable and a wonderful addition to this recipe! I went through a similar experience with my mother. Can’t wait to make your cake. Happy belated and early Birthday!

  16. Carmela says

    April 24, 2015 at 4:09 pm

    What are the small little chocolates around the cake ?

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